Spend a summer in Spain and you notice something quietly wonderful about the older women around you. In the fierce heat of August, when the temperature climbs and the streets shimmer, Spanish women in their sixties, seventies and beyond move through the day looking cool, put together, and effortlessly elegant, dressed in a handful of …
When an older person starts becoming forgetful, confused and unlike themselves, the fear that leaps to everyone’s mind is dementia, that slow, irreversible thief of memory and self. It is a reasonable fear, and often a correct one. But there is a quieter possibility that a good doctor will check for early, one that can …
It started with a simple question I could not answer. Standing in front of the milk in a supermarket, I realized I had no idea whether the cows that produced it had been given a synthetic growth hormone, because nothing on the carton told me. In Europe, where I live, this is not a question …
The first thing that struck me was not the food. It was the length. Not the official length of the holiday weekend. The emotional length. The amount of time the day was apparently allowed to take up. In a lot of American holidays, the meal is the event. You cook, drive, host, clean, refill drinks, …
Tourists land in France and order like they’re trying to prove they’ve seen a movie. French onion soup. Croque monsieur. Steak frites. Coq au vin. Crème brûlée. Something in a little cast-iron pot. Something with truffle oil. Something labeled “authentic.” None of those foods are illegal. Plenty of French people eat them. The problem is …
There is a kind of retirement plan that works in practice but that most financial advisors would never put on paper, and it looks something like this. A woman approaches retirement with a pension, a modest one, and less than sixty thousand dollars in savings, a sum any conventional planner would call dangerously thin for …
A friendly, side-by-side explainer of the money rules, taxes, and habits that shape car choices on both sides of the Atlantic, current as of April 2026. You spot it in a Munich grocery lot: a tidy, older Volvo wagon with child seats and a fresh inspection sticker. Around the corner in Phoenix, a neighbor swaps …
Most comparisons of European and American food run in one direction. Someone moves to Europe, marvels at the shorter ingredient lists, and comes home convinced the American food system has failed them. I wanted to try the opposite experiment, to take Europe’s rules with me into an American supermarket and see what happened when I …
An American woman gets married and, more often than not, faces a decision that comes loaded with tradition, paperwork and quiet social pressure, whether to take her husband’s last name. A Spanish woman getting married faces no such decision, because the question simply does not exist. She keeps her name, as she always would, as …
I have eaten deli meat my whole life without a second thought, the sliced ham and turkey of a thousand quick sandwiches eaten standing at the counter, until I read about a decision France made that stopped me, quite literally, mid-bite one afternoon. France, a nation that reveres its charcuterie perhaps more than any other, …
There is a striking idea in the science of aging that many people have never heard, and it concerns something millions of Europeans do without a moment’s thought. In study after study, researchers have found that people who have spoken two languages throughout their lives tend to show the symptoms of dementia several years later …
There is a test for whether a food is really food, and it does not involve reading a label or counting additives. It involves imagining a Spanish grandmother, an abuela of the old kind, the sort who cooked every day of her life from what the market and the garden gave her, and asking one …