Tucked into the far west of Spain, along the Portuguese border, lies a region most travelers have never heard of and most tourists never see. Extremadura is one of the emptiest corners of the country, a vast, sun-baked landscape of Roman ruins, wild nature reserves, and quiet old towns, home to only about a million …
The first thing you notice about laundry in Spain is that nobody seems to own a tumble dryer, and the balconies are full of clothes flapping in the sun. The second thing you notice, if you pay attention, is that people wash in cold water, use little detergent, and do not launder every garment after …
At the retirement seminars his union ran, the numbers were always laid out plainly. This is your pension, they would say, this is roughly what it will afford, and here, they would conclude, is the careful, modest American retirement it all adds up to. He listened closely, he planned, and he made his peace with …
For years, my answer to a stuffy house was to buy something for it. A scented candle here, a plug-in air freshener there, a spray to chase away the smell of last night’s cooking, all of it lined up in the cupboard like a small pharmacy for the air. And yet the house never quite …
There is an old fisherman in a hundred Mediterranean harbors, past seventy and often well past it, who still takes his small boat out before dawn as he has every working day of his life. He would be quietly surprised to learn that his ordinary working day, the early rise, the physical labor, the fresh …
They agreed on almost everything about retirement except the one thing that mattered most, where to have it. He had fallen for the idea of Portugal, the lower costs, the slower pace, the sense of adventure in their later years. She wanted Florida, closer to the grandchildren, in a country she understood, speaking a language …
For some people, anxiety medication is medically necessary. SSRIs, SNRIs, benzodiazepines, buspirone. These drugs exist because anxiety disorders are real, neurochemically driven conditions that cannot always be managed by lifestyle changes alone. Current psychiatric guidelines, including those from the APA and NICE, continue to recommend medication as a frontline treatment for moderate to severe generalized …
There is a particular kind of magic to a Spanish terraza, the outdoor tables that spill from every bar and café onto pavements and plazas across the country. It is where Spain does much of its living, over a coffee that lasts an hour or a beer that lasts an afternoon, slowly watching the whole …
An invitation to dinner at a European home is a lovely thing, and also a small minefield for the unprepared visitor. What you carry through the door says a great deal about you, and the codes governing the humble host gift are older, stricter and more full of hidden meaning than most newcomers imagine. Bring …
The first time someone from a more reserved culture witnesses a Spanish hospital stay, the scene can be quite startling. A single patient in a bed, and around them a rotating cast of family and friends, someone always present, a companion settled in for the night, relatives arriving with home-cooked food and clean clothes, neighbors …
Between the two of them, their Social Security checks added up to one thousand seven hundred and twenty dollars a month. In America, that number did not add up to a retirement so much as to a slow, anxious math problem, the kind where the answer is always a little short. They were not careless …
Tourists land in Germany and order like they’re auditioning for Oktoberfest. Schnitzel. Sausage. A giant pork knuckle the size of a bowling ball. Something with a flag stuck in it. And yes, Germans eat those things. Somewhere. Sometimes. But a lot of the “classic German dishes” tourists chase are the kind of food many Germans …